The Love-Knot
April 9th, 2008

The Love-Knot

It’s never simple. I envy those who make a choice and
go with it. I have to justify everything. It’s my need
to be right all the time. I have to rationalize everything.

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“Freud was once asked what he thought a normal person should be able to do well.
The questioner probably expected a complicated answers. But Freud, in the curt way
of his old days, is reported to have said: “Lieben und arbeiten” (to love and to work).
It pays to ponder on this simple formula; it gets deeper as you think about it.”

Quoted from Erik H. Erikson, Childhood and Society

^ 6 Comments...

  1. Jen

    I use to rationalize everything too, I do it less now. It’s kind of a good thing but sometimes it gets me into trouble, I wished I too my time to think through things more like before.

  2. golfwidow

    Rationalization is how we prove, beyond doubt, that we are right and everyone else is wrong. It’s also why we’ll never achieve world peace. But I don’t care, because I’m right and the leaders of the free world are wrong, and I’ll believe that till the day they blow me to bits.

  3. Zhu

    I *try* to rationalize everything. But being caught between two cultures makes it harder. Sometimes I just go with the flow — less headaches!

    Love the idea of the blog. Finally something different!

  4. MICHAEL MANNING

    Oh, I don’t know…I find myself keeping it simple and Freud was not a happy fellow!

  5. susan

    I think what he meant is that happiness is a side product and not an end to be sought for itself.

  6. Carolina Lange

    Me too, I allways rationalize everything! But I think that is not so good for me!

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