Comments on: Expecting Trouble

By: kalai

kalai — Sat, 22 Dec 2007 03:59:45 +0000

I 2 agree with gary…

By: Carolina Lange

Carolina Lange — Thu, 20 Dec 2007 17:54:21 +0000

I also agree!

By: Seraphine Khorana

Seraphine Khorana — Thu, 20 Dec 2007 07:33:56 +0000

Bettina. I love your blog story about people’s reactions to you.
Esteban, Eidur, Dandellion. Hugs & Thank You!
Gary. I think you’re perfect.
Rags. Ya, I project my fears all over everyone. It’s true!

By: Bettina

Bettina — Wed, 19 Dec 2007 06:04:30 +0000

Is it a coincidence we have both written a similar post about almost the same subject on the same day? How funny! I agree with you absolutely, of course. We create our own reality and that often includes the way people us as a reaction to the way we treat them.

By: Esteban

Esteban — Wed, 19 Dec 2007 05:09:21 +0000

another way we need to be careful when we create our own worlds.

thanks, Seraphine!

By: gary

gary — Wed, 19 Dec 2007 03:00:52 +0000

Often people make jokes that are clearly more than that. They are a sort of passive aggressive way to make some sort of dig or criticism. I sometimes cut through the humour by asking something in a serious tone. “That sounds like a joke, but do you really mean it?” or “Are you trying to tell me something but doing it by joking?”

Not that I’m perfect mind you…I do it too sometimes I’ve been told.

By: rags

rags — Tue, 18 Dec 2007 23:54:11 +0000

i totally agree with you. we also project our fears, and insecurities on others. like when we don’t trust the ones we love when it is us who have been untrustworthy. Great job!

By: Eidur

Eidur — Tue, 18 Dec 2007 19:46:33 +0000

I can only agree!

By: dandellion Kimban

dandellion Kimban — Tue, 18 Dec 2007 14:00:51 +0000

words of wisdom.